By Lea Z. Singh |
The shadows are real, just like the concerns I expressed were real. But they are still exaggerated by the angle and the ultrabright fluorescent light, and the resulting portrait is a caricature of the person involved.
Today I want to shine a different light on the same phenomenon of blogging and social networking participation in general. I want to talk this time about snowflakes, and about being in love with the world.
There is no question that the world, with all its incredible detail in everything from the smallest snowflake to the towering mountains, is breathtakingly beautiful. There is so much to explore and discover in this vast world, so much beauty, intricacy and uniqueness. And all we can manage before our frail candle finally burns out is to imperfectly savour but the tiniest fraction of this grand and entrancing display.
The first-ever photographs of snowflakes were taken by Wilson A. Bentley, a self-educated farmer in rural Vermont. After years of trial and error he developed a technique that allowed him to use a camera together with his microscope, thus revolutionizing the art of microscopic photography. "Snowflake" Bentley also clearly fell in love with his subject matter, and went on to take photos of more than 5000 snowflakes during his lifetime. He never found two that were alike. He said:
"Under the microscope, I found that snowflakes were miracles of beauty; and it seemed a shame that this beauty should not be seen and appreciated by others. Every crystal was a masterpiece of design and no one design was ever repeated., When a snowflake melted, that design was forever lost. Just that much beauty was gone, without leaving any record behind."Looking at our wonderful world, these words by Bentley can easily be applied to almost everything else we find around us, and modern technology has allowed each of us to become a Bentley. We can now capture and share images so effortlessly that it is almost a shame not to do so! There is so much beauty out there for us to appreciate in the innumerable big and little things that we encounter in our every day life.
Have you ever taken a vacation alone? I never have, but I imagine it must be a rather incomplete experience. One of the best things about travelling with someone is that you get to point at the marvels you encounter and shout "wow, look over there!" Human beings are social beings, and sharing our discoveries is like eating our meals twice; we get to savour them alone, but we appreciate them perhaps even more when we see them through the other person's eyes. We derive joy from bringing joy to others in the form of newly discovered beauty.
Thus, from the moment our breakfast table is set with rustic red plates laden with steaming waffles strewn with sugar-powdered blueberries, to the next moment when our giggly little daughter descends down the stairs in her PJs with her bedhead hair adorably fluffled around her face, to the next moment when the sun magically shimmers on the new bright cushions on our patio set, to the next moment when...it is all entrancingly worth taking photos of and sharing.
Hence, the photo blogs. Is it narcissism, meaning love for the self? Or is it us being Bentley, and being in love with the beauty found in everything and everyone around us?
Personally I believe that there is truth in both viewpoints.
The complication to being Bentley is that human beings have the unfortunate tendency to become so entranced with the most beautiful thing (to us) of all - namely, ourselves - that we can become rather unsocially self-centered.
Imagine for a moment that you visit five different blogs:
- Blog 1 posts 30 images per day of some natural object, such as landscapes, flowers, or wild animals.
- Blog 2 posts 30 images a day of things like food, fashions, jewelry, cars, etc.
- Blog 3 posts 30 images a day of people such as models or movie stars.
- Blog 4 posts 30 images a day of the blogger's own family, especially the children.
- Blog 5 posts 30 images a day of the blogger in different poses and close-ups.
Blog 1 clearly says to me that the blogger is simply being Bentley. I could be wrong of course, since it is possible to become unhealthily obsessed with just about anything, but I would still have few concerns about this person.
Blog 2 would probably evoke a similar reaction - not much concern for the blogger in terms of narcissism, though hedonism or consumerism might start to cross to mind.
Blog 3 would start to raise a few red flags, because this blogger might be objectifying other people, and we know that is not a good thing.
Blog 5 would probably remind me of Narcissus himself, who could not tear his eyes away from his own image. Being Bentley with oneself tends to lead to that...
Would Blog 4 make me think "Bentley"?
Well, children are quite possibly the most beautiful part of all of creation. Forget for a moment the actual difficulties of everyday life raising them. If we look solely at the visual, then what can possibly outdo their most adorable, carefree and innocent, fresh-as-rosebuds beauty? Every gorgeous smile cries out to be memorialized in photos and shared with the world!
And yet, going all Bentley on our children is really less than kosher for at least two reasons:
- While it's okay to look at snowflakes as beautiful objects, because that is what they are, people are not mere beautiful objects, and it is not right to objectify children down to the level of snowflakes. Feels unhealthy and somehow not right...
- Perhaps most importantly, we parents love our children to such an extent that our self-love extends to them. Each child is in effect our little "Mini-Me". So in some ways, one gets the feeling that there is not necessarily much difference between Blog 5 and Blog 4.
photo credit: CaptPiper via photopin cc
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